I HAD THE BEST TALKS LAST NIGHT WITH “HIM”. I LOVE TALKING TO GUYS ABOUT STUFF. THEY ARE FULL OF KNOWLEDGE. GIRLS WE FIND THEM SO DIFFICULT BUT IN REALITY THEY ARE VERY SIMPLE BEINGS.

ONE THING THAT GOT OUT OF THE CONVERSATION THAT I FOUND TO BE VERY COMMON IS THE FACT THAT: FEMALES TEND TO HOLD OUT ON SEX WITH GUYS THEY SEE THEMSELVES IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH VS. GUYS THEY JUST LIKE FOR THE TIMEBEING.

WHEN I FIRST HEARD THAT I WAS LIKE IT SOUNDS PRETTY DUMB BUT TO THINK ABOUT IT MAKES PERFECT SENSE. I KNOW THAT IF I SEE A DUDE AS MY FUTURE MAN, I WANT HIM TO BE SO IN LOVE WITH ME, MYSELF AND I: NOT MY SEX  OR EVEN MY LOOKS BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, YOUR LOOKS ARE GONNA CHANGE AS YOU GET OLDER, THE SEX DRIVE MAY DECREASE THEN WHAT YOU GONNA HAVE LEFT? NOTHING…

THEREFORE, I PROBABLY WONT HAVE SEX WITH THE DUDE I FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT, FOR A VERY LONG TIME, SOME GIRLS MAY SAY, OH WELL HE WILL GET IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE….UMM AND? LOL I HONESTLY FEEL LIKE IM A ONE AND A MILLION KIND OF GIRL AND NO GIRLS SEX CAN OVER SHADOW AND ANY REAL GUY WOULD WAIT. I JUST DONT WANT ANYTHING TO MESS UP WHAT I GOT GOING. SEX IS SOMETHING I WANT TO SHARE WITH SOMEONE IM IN LOVE WITH, SOMEONE THATS MY MAN, SOMEONE THAT IS WILLING TO TAKE THE RISK OF HAVING SEX ! SO MANY GIRLS HAVE “BABY DADDYS” BUT NOT “BOYFRIENDS THAT ARE THEIR CHILD FATHERS” BECAUSE THEY GET WITH A GUY THAT PROBABLY IS NOT READY TO HAVE A CHILD OR DOESNT PLAN ON BEING WITH THE GIRL FOR LONG TO WANT TO HAVE A CHILD WITH her.

I LEARNED A LOT IN MY RELATIONSHIPS AND I KNOW GUYS…AND WHEN IT COMES TIME TO MARRY A GIRL OR FALL IN LOVE, ITS NOT ABOUT THE SEX, THE LOOKS, ETC. ITS ABOUT THE WAY THE GIRL MAKES THEM FEEL AND I KNOW I GOT MORE TO GIVE AND I CAN GIVE THAT GUY THAT FEELING =) sex would just be an added bonus =P

peaceloveandharmonyyy:

Has to be one of the GREATEST blogs I ever discovered on the entire world wide web! Check it out ladies! and don’t get turned off by the name of the site. I think it was actually a way to get us Black sisters to read the content. Like “Oh hell no he didn’t” but when you read it you will be like “Ohh shit this so true, thanks” kind of thing. I will be posting some of my favorite quotes from it because I think a lot of things he writes on here need to be heard. I wish I could promote for him because I really think his message needs to be spread in the Black community… and fellas you can learn a lot by his blog too. 

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